April 20, 2010

Give me a break...

It's been a week since I blogged? How does that happen? You'd think we've been on some super-exciting vacation or something... if only. Truth is, we've been up to the same-ol'-same-ol'. Well, for the most part...

This past Friday night, I was completely beat. The kids had been less than agreeable for a bit too long and the monotony of mommyhood was biting at my heels. As I walked upstairs to go to bed Friday, I turned and told Nathan "I need a break,"... "I know when I'm not looking forward to the next day, I need a break."

"You'll get one in the morning right?" Ha. Funny.

My Saturday morning line up included a Weight Watchers meeting and weigh-in at 7:30am, followed by some garage sale shopping with a friend. Though, my friend said she had to be home by 9:00... and when I reminded my husband that some of the time, the kids sleep until 8:30... the whole idea of "break" seemed ridiculous. He laughed. He agreed.

Saturday came, I met the WW meeting with weight-loss (always a good thing) and enjoyed spending time scoring lots of Melissa and Doug puzzles and board books for $.50 a piece. At 9:00am, my friend drops me at my door and I see a Hallmark card waiting outside the front door.


I open the card, and read:

"Heather, I love you very much and appreciate everything you do and everything about you. Now, go check your email and enjoy your day!"

With card in hand, I run to my friend's car to show it to her. She stops me mid-sentence and says "I already know! I already know! YOU'RE the one who had to be home by 9:00am!"

I rush inside to check my email and find a message from my husband detailing the events of the day. He had arranged for my in-laws to keep Tatum for the day, while he spent some one-on-one time with Trevor. My friend Jenny, who I've known since I was 14, but had not seen in weeks, was coming to the house in an hour to pick me up.

And she did... and then we had a wonderful pedicure, and hot-rock massage. Followed by lunch, then shopping at my new favorite store "Charming Charlie" I'm always at least 5 years late on any new trend...so forgive me if it's old to everyone but me! All I know is I scored some rockin' jewelry, a purse and a sweet little contacts case for about $20!

After that, I headed back home where I laid eyes on my sweet littles for the first time ALL day. I spent about 30 min with them, before our sitter came over so Nathan and I could head to dinner and a movie.

Now, looking back... it really IS funny. Let's rewind.

last Friday evening:
Me: "Nathan, I need a break."
Nathan: "Well, you'll get one in the morning right?"
Me: "Well, yes... thanks to my amazing husband who anticipates my needs before I even speak them... thanks to YOU, I will."

3 comments:

Carley said...

That is very sweet, Heather! He's so thoughtful! I love Charming Charlie...I just recently found it, too. Very cool store! Glad you are refreshed. I get a weekend to get refreshed coming up and I can't wait! You are a great momma and wife and deserved the break!

We Three Smiths + 1 said...

I've never met Nathan, but he sounds like the best thing since sliced bread. Wow. How amazing Saturday must have been! I have had days where I feel like I need a break...sometimes I feel like I have more of those than not. And then one of sweet littles does something that melts my heart and I couldn't imagine doing anything other than what I am doing.

I ♥ Garage Sales, too!!! I'm way out of the loop...have no idea what Charming Charlie is, but it sounds fabulous!

I am never too busy for a play-date...I just told Mary that we needed to get together again! Any good parks up your way...or we can always try the Arboretum. Y'all let me know what sounds best!

Mary said...

I don't know about Charming Charlie either...hello you people need to share info!! Way to go Nathan! He rocks!